Living the Spanish Way: Balancing Work and Life in Seville
When I started my study abroad journey, it was the most life-altering decision that I had ever made, and I didn’t even know it. I was so excited but also so nervous, and I wasn't sure if I was making the right decision or not. My year in Seville, Spain, which combined academic pursuits, a professional marketing internship, and immersive cultural experiences, has made me the person I am today. My experience has shaped my understanding of the world and my place within it as an International Studies student. Through many moments of excitement and angst, dealing with challenges of adapting to a new culture, and the joys of creating meaningful and lifelong connections, I gained profound insights into work-life balance, community, and personal growth in my own life. These lessons have changed not only my role as a CEA CAPA Alumni Ambassador but also my aspirations for the future.
One of the most surprising aspects of my time in Seville was experiencing the locals' distinct approach to work-life balance. As part of my internship, I observed firsthand how locals prioritize both productivity and leisure in a way that balances work and free time. In the mornings, time is devoted to getting work done, but in the afternoons, many people participate in siesta, which is a time to nap or rest. In the evening, people often go out for tapas, take a walk, or shop. This slow pace of life was very different for me, in contrast to the fast-paced, high-pressure environment I was accustomed to back home in the United States. It challenged me and made me reevaluate my own lifestyle and priorities, showing me the importance of cultivating balance. I learned that by taking time to enjoy the little things in life and prioritizing connecting with friends and family, my life may become more joyful.
Las Setas de Sevilla
I realized that this transition in my life does not lessen my ambition or productivity; if anything, it enhances it. Sharing these life-changing insights with other students considering studying abroad has become one of my passions. I believe that this philosophy of prioritizing connections over work could drastically change how students navigate their academic and professional lives.
Porto, Portugal
Living with a Host Family and Roommates Abroad
Living with a host family and having many roommates added another layer of depth to my experience. During my first semester abroad, I lived with a host family. My host family welcomed me with open arms and was extremely supportive and caring. My roommates and I had daily home-cooked meals, were able to discuss cultural differences with our host family and learn new Spanish expressions. These interactions with my host family enriched my language skills and cultural understanding. At the same time, living with many roommates from different parts of the U.S. was an enriching experience, as I was able to create many long-lasting friendships that I never thought I’d have.
Plaza de España
The Duality of Culture Shock
Culture shock, both abroad and upon returning home, is an almost inevitable part of studying in a new country. In Seville, I surprisingly did not experience culture shock when I first arrived. However, when I went home in May for the summer, I experienced reverse culture shock, which I thankfully knew about thanks to CEA CAPA. Then, upon returning to Seville in August, I experienced a bit of culture shock. However, it only lasted a few days, and once I had processed that, I was back in a place that felt like home; I felt at peace again.
My Spot on the Guadalquivir River
Reverse culture shock, however, proved to be an extremely difficult experience for me. I felt disoriented by how familiar yet foreign everything seemed. Things that were once normal to me, like fast-paced schedules, ways of greeting each other, and communicating indirectly, became strange to me. I also missed my friendships and the slower pace of life in Seville. It is very important for future students studying abroad to recognize that these challenges are natural and can be managed.
Building Lifelong Connections and New Aspirations
Some of my most treasured memories from Seville involve the friendships I formed during Feria de Abril. The Feria is an important cultural festival in the spring where I was able to connect with locals and other Spaniards, including the friends I made from Madrid, who welcomed me into their friend group. These connections have inspired me to consider Madrid as my next destination for living, working, or studying. I hope to continue building on the life I’ve made in Spain by continuing to enhance the professional and personal networks I’ve cultivated. As an alumni ambassador, I encourage students to embrace all opportunities for connection while studying abroad, as these relationships often become the most influential aspects of your experience abroad.
Feria de Abril in Seville
A Life Transformed
Studying and interning in Seville has been an extremely transformative chapter in my life. The lessons I’ve learned have reshaped my worldview and instilled in me a deeper sense of purpose in my life. My experience has sparked a desire in me to continue exploring, learning, and growing in international contexts. For students considering studying abroad, my advice is simple: take the leap. The challenges may be daunting, but the rewards are immeasurable.
As I reflect on my journey, I’m reminded of how much can change in a year. Seville has left a mark on my heart, and I’m glad I get to pay it forward as an ambassador, sharing my story and encouraging others to write their own.