On Being Thankful for the Opportunity of a Lifetime

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Welcome to my last blog, readers!

It's certainly been a crazy six weeks living Down Under.

Coogee to Bondi Coastal Walk
Photo: Coogee to Bondi Coastal Walk

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When I first got to Sydney six weeks ago, I never imagined how much I would change within such a short amount of time. I'd always wanted to study abroad, but I had never found the courage to do it until now after having one of the most academically and personally draining years of my life. I finally decided to take this next step because I was looking to make a positive change in my life after a great deal of bad, and I'm glad I did because this was one of the most amazing experiences of my life.

Gordon's Cove
Photo: Gordon's Cove

The first few days in Sydney were rough. I was so nervous that I'd made a terrible mistake leaving the US but was quickly proven wrong. I didn't expect to make many friends in Australia, but within the first week I grew so close to so many of my fellow students. I can honestly say the friends I made on this trip have touched my heart and forever affected me in a positive way. They are a huge part of what made this journey so memorable. Even though we have all returned to our respective homes all over the US, I know I will see them again soon.

The Royal National Park Coastal Walk
Photo: the Royal National Park Coastal Walk

Since I began my program, I've become so much more social and confident. I used to be so scared of everything, but studying abroad forced me to leave my comfort zone every single day and challenged me to take risks. I've become more willing to try new things and have learned how to stop over thinking so much. Australia gave me the opportunity to unleash my inner adventurer. I got to swim in the Great Barrier Reef, get up close and personal with the native wildlife, and hike all over Australia's rocky coasts.

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Crystal Cascades in Cairns
Photo: Crystal Cascades in Cairns

One of the main takeaways I gained from my summer in Sydney is that people will surprise you. I learned that you can never tell who you'll become close with just by looking at them. When I first met my friends, I had no idea that I would grow to care for them so much. I also ended up surprising myself. I realized that I am much more capable than I give myself credit for. Studying abroad on the other side of the planet proved to me that I can accomplish any goal I set my mind to if I work hard enough at it.

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For those who are considering studying abroad but aren't sure if it's the right decision, go for it. If you have the means to do it, take advantage. Studying abroad is one of the best decisions I've ever made. Yes, it is scary, but it's completely worth it. Fear has a funny way of holding us back, but it can only do that if you allow it to. I'm glad I stopped letting it. It's bittersweet being back in New York, but I'm so grateful to have had this once in a lifetime opportunity. It has truly changed me for the better. I will never forget these wild six weeks in Sydney.

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Shayanna Roman in Sydney, Australia.